LOVE RELATIONSHIPS- WHAT DO YOU NEED? BY:  NANCY OAKES    Of course I am so thankful for my first love, and my wonderful children that relationship produced.  I however, got lost in a world of pregnancies, household chores, and vacuum cleaners as Valentine presents.  I felt I was no longer sexy, I had no time for him, and he eventually found someone who gave him time and more.  Looking back the…