We've all been there. The relationship ends and you can't help wondering, "Was it my fault?" "Did I do something wrong?" "What if this was my one chance and I just blew it?"

I am here to tell you today that it was no one's fault. No one did anything wrong, as a matter of fact, everyone did everything right. And most importantly, all of us will have many opportunities to love again. Yes we will!

The first key to mending a broken heart is to be armed and ready with affirmations to break the cycle of obsessive thinking. Here are a few affirmations to not only heal that heart but help bring harmony back into your life:

I am perfect love.

I am whole and holy.

All is forgiven and released now, past and future generations to come.

Out of this experience only good will come. (This one is my favorite from Louise Hay.)

I am open and willing to begin again. 

The second key to recovering from a broken heart is to realize that our heart holds all of the memories from all of the lifetimes that we have ever lived here on this planet.

So oftentimes when we are in a relationship and it comes to a close or there is disharmony these emotions trigger programs from past lives and all of the pain bubbles up to the surface. So the pain  from this break-up, this disharmony may be triggering a painful break-up from our past. It may be coming around again so that we can heal it once and for all and break through our fear of being alone and starting over.

The truth is that we are perfect love.
There is nothing broken.
There is nothing that needs mending.

It is awesome to think that we are eternal beings constantly moving through these experiences again and again with different perspectives and different ways of thinking and being. Eventually we will figure it out and get it right. There is no way we cannot. 

The third key in healing when a loved one has left is to release attachments. Let go of attachments to people in life, to the love or the brokenness in relationships. There is no brokenness, ever. It is always perfection.

There are no accidents.
No one did anything wrong.
Everything is unfolding exactly as it should.

Trust and believe that there is a higher order working, always, and let go of expectations to wanting things to be a certain way, and find the beauty and grace this experience is offering to you. This will begin to open up a new way of being, it will begin to open up inspiration in your life.

Inspiration will help you find hope again. It will help guide you to new experiences with new people and new adventures. We have to take the good with the bad, the yin with the yang. It helps us appreciate all that life is offering to us in every moment. It also shapes who we are and strengthens our resolve. Find the gifts because it's not all just rubble.

As you pick up the pieces and begin again, remember we all have a plethora of angels helping us to align with our highest good. Ask for help and be open to receive it.

Julie Geigle is a gifted channel of Archangel Metatron, a 4th generation Psychic Medium and Spiritual Healer. Book a private session with Julie at heavensenthealing.us, where you can sign up for her newsletter, listen to her weekly radio show, and purchase guided meditations. Watch Julie Wednesdays for a free psychic reading at 9am CST on FB live at omTimes Magazine.

ABSTRACT: We've all been there, a relationship ends and we are left feeling alone, confused, and shaken. It's a huge hit to our self-esteem and no matter whether we ended it or the other person did, we may still be left feeling like a failure. In this article Julie shares 3 keys to overcome a broken heart and trust in the perfection of life.

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Comment by Julie Geigle on June 28, 2017 at 11:59am

Awesome Thank you Kathy!

Comment by Kathy Custren on June 27, 2017 at 11:29pm

Hi, Julie - Thank you so much for adding more to this, and it does meet the submission guidelines. One more thing we will have to amend is your bio paragraph to include a link to your classes on the Experts platform:

Julie Geigle is a gifted channel of Archangel Metatron, a 4th generation Psychic Medium and Spiritual Healer. Watch Julie on Facebook Live at OMTimes Magazine, Wednesdays at 9 a.m. Central time for a free psychic reading. Learn directly from Julie at her OMTimes Experts page. 
Book a private session, sign up for her newsletter, listen to her weekly radio show, and purchase guided meditations at heavensenthealing.us.

If you have any other changes to suggest, please let me know. ~ Blessings! :)

Comment by Julie Geigle on June 22, 2017 at 5:57pm

Hi Kathy, I added a few paragraphs and the word count is up to 658. Let me know if this works. Thanks Julie.

Comment by Kathy Custren on March 6, 2017 at 11:03pm

Hi, Julie - this article falls a little under our minimum requested word count. You may want to add another paragraph or two? Message me directly for review once you make the changes, please ~ Blessings! 

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