“A female tourist that was struck and killed by a ’Ride the Ducks’ boat vehicle in Philadelphia’s Chinatown section has been identified.” Her name was Liz. At age 68, she was the youngest of my mother’s circle of friends. She was zany and full of life. I was privileged to know her.

The web story of what happened wouldn't have reached that many of us. For me, I'd have never seen it if I hadn't gone looking.  People get hit and killed by cars every day. The fact that it was a land and water vehicle made the story a little unusual, but mostly what made this story unique was the victim was a friend. When something like this happens to someone we know, we pay a bit more attention.

A witness reported she was distracted by her iPad and was clipped by the Duck boat. Instead of stepping back, she held out her hand, as if to say “stop.” Tragically, the driver never saw her. 

It’s distressing to read news like this in general. Even more so when it is someone we know and love. Although we hear tragic stories in the news all the time, it’s quite different when it's personal.

For me, I am made aware again of the fragility of life. It is a reminder of our assumptions that we will have a tomorrow. 

It is another wake up call to let go of worry and more fully enjoy the moment.

It is support for a decision to follow and live a life that brings us joy, instead of doing what might be considered sane, secure or logical.

It is also a stark reminder to pay attention to life and what is around us.

Almost all of us have been guilty of walking around in an unfamiliar city looking at our iPad or smart phone. Check out any city webcam and you’ll see many folks distracted trying to navigate their way around. Most of us have referenced our phone or iPad while walking down the sidewalk or crossing a street, even when in a familiar setting.

I know I’ve also been guilty of using “talk to text” while driving. I tell myself I’m not really texting and driving, but we all know there’s not really that much difference.

We’ve all seen the news reports and heard the stories about horrific and sudden deaths due to texting while driving. And perhaps because those stories weren’t directly connected to someone we know, we often don’t quite take them as seriously as we should.

In an email sent out after Liz’s celebration of life, my mother wrote: "[The] Message is ‘tell people you love them.’ I love you all.”

One of my mother's friends responded “Liz lived every day to its fullest … and reminds us to live each day as if it were your last … because some day it will be. Her sad, sudden death shows us that life changes in an instant.”

What is fascinating is we all know this message. There is nothing new about the missive to live each day as if it were our last. “Yes, Yes” we all proclaim, wholeheartedly agreeing how life can serve up some mighty unexpected curve balls.

For a time we remember to tell our friends and family how much we love them. Perhaps we call our mom or dad a few times more often. We let go of the grudge we were holding against our neighbor and make up with an old friend.

Life is precious and we never know when our time to leave this earth is going to come. Our biggest assumption is that we will have a tomorrow. Or that those we love and hold dear will be here when we awake. We eventually forget to live each day to the fullest as we get caught back up in the drama of our lives.

Wake up calls are rarely a pleasant thing. The best ones are like the applications on our cell phones that play soft music gradually increasing in volume. The worst are those that startle us from a deep sleep. For me, hearing of Liz’s death was one of the most jarring calls I’ve received in a long, long time.

It’s unfortunate that sometimes this is what it takes to remind us to fully appreciate those around us and chose to focus on how wonderful life can be. Most of us will have a wake up call like this at least once or twice in our life. We will all probably then become busy again and forget to stop and smell the flowers.

Yet, for these brief times we are reminded - whether it’s by a personal experience or by hearing of someone elses’ - we can embrace our loved ones, give thanks for our life, and treat every interaction with every person as if it might be our last. Because, you never know when it just might be.

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Shannon Crane is a writer and speaker passionate about sharing how our thoughts and perceptions contribute to the quality of our lives. She is presently living and writing her memoir, "5 Months to 95 Years: Discovering the Sacred In Caregiving." Connect with her Facebook group or visit her website at www.yourlifeperspective.com.

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Comment by Shannon Crane on May 22, 2015 at 11:45am

Funny, Shelly - I agree that her life wasn't necessarily "cut short" so good point about the title. Liz hated growing old and would not have done well with health issues so a quick exit was the best thing for her!

I like the current blend of first and third person and don't see that the article would work well to try to take that out. Perhaps I'll do another one about wake up calls instead! Thanks for the feedback!

Comment by Shannon Crane on May 22, 2015 at 11:05am

Yes, good point. I could edit out that part - so the paragraph would read as such:

A witness reported she was distracted by her iPad and was clipped by the Duck boat. Instead of stepping back, she held out her hand, as if to say “stop.” Tragically, the driver never saw her. 

Not quite as graphic ... but still distressing. However, I think it emphasizes the wake up call aspect to the story. 

If I am correct, however, at this time you aren't recommending it to the publishers?

Comment by Shannon Crane on May 22, 2015 at 10:47am

Thanks, Shelly. I'm curious if Om Times ever accepts this sort of thing for publication since it's probably a 50/50 blend of first person and third?

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