Clearing a Path to Your Future
By Judi Lynch
The fact that it could actually save your life is the best motivation to clear the dark and dusty corners of your mind holding onto hurtful moments from the past. How do we learn to give up the ghosts from things we feel are unresolved? Is it really that easy to let it all go? Not for a lot of people. Especially if they are highly empathic or have been through one or more extremely traumatic experiences.
When we re-examine our lives as children and young adults, we help to identify the reasons for our emotions and reactions. If we can understand why we respond to certain situations with fear, apathy or mistrust, we can begin to create the new thought process that will heal the old. Since our thoughts create our reality, this healing becomes necessary to our survival and the ability to thrive to our best life potential.
If you have ever known or are someone who feels they will be in mourning forever over the past, you might have experienced overwhelming grief over what was or might have been. What we learn from, what we grow from, how we process life are a multitude of scattered thoughts, emotions, actions and choices. If we can leave behind the judgment, remember there is a rhyme and reason, we can forgive ourselves and others to move forward. Too many good people are worried over others who have long ago moved on and haven’t worried over them in years. Many others are concerned over things said in anger or things left unsaid in love when someone has transitioned over or lost contact through the years.
Grief is also a very important part of our process. If we are locked in the past through unresolved feelings with someone who has crossed over, it can seem impossible to resolve. This doesn’t have to be so. We can help to release these feelings of loss or have resolution to a difficult relationship in an evolved and spiritual manner when we realize we are being heard. The Universe really does process our elevated thought process of release to renew our spirit again to give us hope. We are sent blessings in the form of new people, places, pets and life experiences to lift us up. We have to learn how to open these gifts and celebrate life again. The love created, the energy of the soul will always exist. When a soul makes the transition to light, they can send back to us the knowledge that real death does not exist. They are also aware of how much we miss their actual physical presence in our daily life.
Just like we did when we were kids it is up to us to maintain our innocence in the ways of wonder where life is concerned. We have to remember to dream, to live in the now, plan for the future. When we protect our life energy force we honor ourselves and we take control of our own story. We should never let anyone else define us or drain the energy from our very souls. It takes courage to be in control without excuses. It takes real heart and soul to let someone go you dearly miss. Let that courage change you, make you stronger, reach out to someone else who needs it. Let it touch them. If your past was painful, make the pain talk to the soul, saying out loud time has run out on it. Develop your own special brand of release that turns the lesson into creative miracles.
The evolution we personally experience in our lives touches every fiber of our being. Help is out there in so many incredible forces of man and nature that were expressly created to help us all ascend. What we hold dear, we can protect in beautiful memories of lessons learned and good times. With a sense of humor and a reminder that no one goes untouched or unscarred by life makes our attitude everything. There are billions of people on the Earth, at least one of them might just want to understand you and be a fantastic friend for the rest of your life. There is always a reason to try again, forgive yourself for what you didn’t used to know. A loved one can hear everything you say to them on the other side when you speak to them directly. If you knew you had 50 or 100 more years to live, wouldn’t it more pleasant to think those years can be spent in love, healing, creation and compassion? Releasing the negativity, old thought patterns, energies and resentments, will free you to fly to new horizons. What you find there can bring you tremendous benefits forever in your soul.
About the Author:
Judi Lynch is a psychic medium, intuitive counselor, healing channel and author. She is president of the Crystal Healing Foundation, Inc. and a featured writer for OM Times Magazine. She has authored two books, Friends with Lights and Conscious Ascension and has read for clients all over the world. To learn more or contact for a session see psychicmediumjudilynch.com or email judi@ judilynch.com.