No! We are not talking about feeding Zombies or Vampires. But, yes! We are talking about breaking bread with the dead. A Dumb Supper is a serious meal meant for ghosts; your passed-over-loved-ones to be exact.

        A traditional Dumb Supper is served on all Hollow’s Eve in your home and on a plate at your table. It often begins at midnight with a prayer of thanksgiving, is shrouded in complete respectful silence, and culminates in a celebration of spirits. The Dumb Supper is an ancient tradition where the dead attend the living for a magical night of communion.

         Dinning with the dead is another way of saying, “I love you.

        A Dumb Supper is a bridge between the living and the dead built with love and traversed by loved-ones. It is a centuries old tradition with roots in Europe and branches in America.

        We understand the concept of death as spirit leaving the body. But, what about the idea of spirits returning for dinner?

        We regularly show our love for the deceased by talking to them at their place of burial, taking gifts of flowers, lighting candles for them in our places of worship, and displaying their pictures as a token of our enduring love. On the anniversary of their passing we have moments of silence, song, and food where we live, work, and pray.

        So, is setting a place for the dead at our dinner table going too far?

        Those who practice the Dumb Supper on All Hallows’ Eve don’t think so. The Dumb Supper is a reverent event that discourages conversation of any kind.

        Dumb Supper literally means quiet meal—mum’s the word–Shhh!

        Silence during the meal is of the utmost importance, therefore electronics and motors that beep, buzz or squeak are turned off or unplugged. This includes television sets, refrigerators and freezers. No cell phones, notepads or computers are permitted in the dining area during the dinner.

        These special meals take place on Samhain, October 31st which is Halloween or All Hallows Eve,

 also known as Halloween and All Saints’ Eve; the evening of the Western Christian feast of All Hallows’ Day.

        It is also a yearly celebration observed in a number of countries. This practice, celebrated worldwide, is one of the largest gatherings at the Festival of the Dead in Salem, Massachusetts.

        Why would the veil between the living and the dead be thinner on Halloween day than any other? Because, intention powered by the flame of love is a powerful tool.

        Perhaps Collective Intention empowered through prayer and meditation, can literally pull aside the curtain of death so the dead can once again share time and space in the land of the living in the form of a spiritual supper.

        Here is how the Dumb Supper works.

        The evening opens with a blessing where each attendee is guided through the veil between the worlds to the realms of the dead where no one living may speak.

        After the family meal is cooked, the table is set with an empty place setting filled with food. In keeping with tradition, the courses of The Dumb Supper are served backwards and the placement of everything down to the silverware is reversed as a means of weaving participants into the shadowy world of spirit. Rather than starting the meal with soup and salad, it begins with desert. It almost begs the question, “Is this an example of the saying, ‘Life is short, so eat desert first.’” Soup and salad are served at the end of the dinner, much like European dinning customs.

        The extra setting is for dead family ancestors to come and enjoy a meal with living family members.

        Photographs of the deceased are often placed on the table as an invitation; a spirituality and metaphysical first step in manifesting a desired outcome.

        So, rather than mourning the deceased, let’s celebrate their memory, and see who comes to dinner, because love is something you can take with you to the-other-side. And, under certain circumstances, like an invitation to a Dumb Supper, love may bring family members back from the dead, to break bread with the living.


ABOUT THE AUTHOR: Kathleen O’Keefe Kanavos is a TV/Radio Host/Producer, International Bestselling award winner author and 3x Breast Cancer Survivor whose dreams diagnosed her illness. She’s published in medical journals, on Huffington Post, in American Express Open Forum and has been on George Noory’s Coast to Coast AM.

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Comment by Kathleen Kanavos on October 25, 2015 at 1:33pm

Hi Shelly, I posted the article in my online word counter or the count. . Sorry. Have a great weekend.

Comment by Kathleen Kanavos on October 24, 2015 at 8:49pm

Hi Shelly, too bad I missed the Halloween deadline. I was busy filming the New England Paranormal Research TV Group for a documentary I am doing for my TV Show, Wicked Housewives On Cape Cod. Yes, I do understand the body of the articles must be 700- 1200 words. This one is 709. Would you have preferred that it were a bit longer? Thank you for featuring it in the community. 

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