Falling in love is a rush! Feeling the vibration of another in passion and sharing in the amazing energy it creates is a most beautiful experience! We hope that it will last forever, that feeling of being connected to another human we love. The surrealness and out-of-body feelings of two souls who collide! Some people may go their whole lives and never feel it. Some people are addicted to it and seek it out with new partnerships again and again throughout their lives.
As we spiritually ascend, we are all learning how to understand these romantic thoughts, feelings and actions and apply them to our soul's purpose. Maybe in your last life, you were happily coupled and spent your life with the same person for sixty years. In this life, however, you may have had several marriages or relationships and still are confused about your choices and their outcome. Many times thinking that you had a life partner only to find yourself alone again after several years.
It's not such an easy thing when you think you have met a kindred to have to let them go. If they do not recognize your soul connection because they are spiritually asleep or distracted by other things, you may have to move on emotionally and physically. So many people I have heard from lately have been doing just that and processing all the confusing feelings are the biggest challenge they face. Memories come flooding back of the good times charging up your energy field and you miss it. We sometimes go running back to negative situations out of fear, seeking out that "rush" only to find ourselves right back in a relationship we know is not good for us or the other person. Always ask yourself, what did I learn from this?
Things may not seem so helpless or hopeless for you in romance if you always think about it in terms of your spiritual growth. I have also read and been reminded several times about "twin flames" and "kindred souls" meeting up again later in life after they have both worked on several personal issues or "soul themes" crucial to their purpose. They may not have been ready the first time they met, but in finding each other again years later, they discover the connection is even stronger.
Since we are all so different in our themes and purposes, it's also important to remember not to compare or believe in "society" rules on love, marriage and romance. There are also many loners among us who thrive on their lifestyle! God made us whole individuals just as we are! When we do find another to share our lives and love with, it should always be respected and celebrated. Lasting relationships require unconditional love to keep vibrant and growing and functional. Two awakened and ascending souls can be magic together! It really is happening more all the time in this new era we are living in.
Hold tight to the reality that we are all in this together but we must understand our life's purpose and soul themes individually. As they say, loving ourselves and taking care of ourselves is key to truly loving and understanding another. Healing your heart from a broken romance becomes easier when you realize the spiritual reasons behind the situations. There is always a purpose to be discovered from the pain and the pleasure of it all.