by Tammra Broughton, RNCP, MNLP, ROHP
You have probably heard this before... that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, expecting different results. I know, it's not easy to make changes, especially if you have a family to feed.
What I can say from experience, is that we aren't any good to anyone if we are just dying inside! The fact you are reading this is an indication that you desire to make a change. Ask yourself, what will happen in 3,5, or 10 years from now if you don't make a change now?
These are important questions to ask yourself and could help you to get motivated TODAY! Did you know that the best way to motivate yourself is to learn about your core values and beliefs and what is truly important to you? Let me explain.
If I asked you: "If time and money were of plenty, and time and money were in surplus and someone handed you $500,000, how would that change your life from the way it is now" You might say something like:
Now, what if I asked you: "If time and money were of plenty, and time and money were in surplus and you were now making $500,000 a year how would that change your life from the way it is now?" You might say some of the same things as above but now you might be thinking that you would be able to give back in much bigger ways, invest in real estate and offer much more time up to be with family and to do more volunteer projects.
The next question is the key to discovering your values:
"WHY ARE THESE THINGS LISTED ABOVE, IMPORTANT TO YOU?" However you answer this question gives me much insight into a person's values and what they truly, deeply care about.
The last question is:
"Do you believe you deserve this life you have dreamed of?" Yes? No? Maybe? "Why or why not?"
This will uncover some (conscious or unconscious) beliefs you have towards yourself.
How are you doing now?
On a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being "I am 100% happy with my life the way it is" and 1 being "I need help", where are you?
If you answered these questions today and you realized that what you are doing IS NOT WORKING FOR YOU then feel free to connect with me and let's continue this conversation. Don't you deserve to realize (real-eyes) what your potential and purpose is and then live it?
Here are a 10 tips to get the ball rolling:
XOXOXO Love, Tammra
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