"Let go of control issues and let the magic happen in your life." - Sparklingbows

Many of my clients come to me requesting love readings. They want to know what he looks like, where they will meet him and, the big one WHEN they will meet him. Much of the time their focus is on finding the ONE, settling down, getting married and having babies. But in having this focus they have been missing the lessons that spirit are showing them on their journey. 

We need to realise that, for spirit, time is of no concept. They don't feel and have the same urgency that we have to know when, where, how, what and who. Instead they enjoy helping others, delighting in the things that bring love, peace and happiness. This is also their wish for us. 

We need to let go of these control issues. Instead allowing things to flow naturally. In having this non-attachment we can begin to enjoy all that we have in our lives. Our relationship with ourselves, friends, partners and colleagues become easier when we let go of that need to control. 

People are not there for us to control. They are here to be loved, respected, valued, treasured and to grow. By controlling others and the circumstances around us, we end up stunting their growth as well as our own. In doing so we create an air of negativity and pain. A feeling of being in constant battle, anxiety and fear. These feelings then become our overwhelming thoughts and, before we know it, we have created that very situation in our living world. This is the law of attraction. 

I have clients who come to me in this exact situation. Having tried in vain to control a person or situation they have lost all sight of who they are. They have lost sight of their wants, needs and desires resulting in a lost of a lover, friends, job and self. In the midst of all this they fail to see the lessons that need to be learnt. 

When we let go of control we accept faith and trust into lives. Into our hearts. To do this takes courage and requires a deeper level of consciousness where we take control of our feelings, thoughts and actions. When doing this we can begin to release and replace the negative with positives. To do this will enable us to allow situations to fold in Gods time. This will be the right time. 

We are all equally entitled to love, peace, fulfilment, abundance and all the magical things of the world that make our hearts sing. There is enough for everyone. When we let go of the need to control we bring our heart's desire to fruition. 

Love, light & sparkles. 


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Comment by Annalisa Corti on August 12, 2012 at 3:34pm

This post has inspired me to take out my deck of angel cards.... thank you ;)

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