We can exchange or share our Soul fragments in relationships or friendships. They tend to be shared when we give of ourselves – physically, mentally, emotionally or spiritually. Now, there is nothing wrong with this, provided the relationship is loving or the friendship is healthy – but the connection must be balanced and have the mutual respect of two individual Souls, sharing a divine connection.
Problems start when discord or differences arise, and normally it is a result of an unbalanced connection. In both relationships and friendships, it is our natural God state to serve, to help and to support. Sometimes we can go too far by taking on someone else's karma – simply because of a pure heart. That said, those of a pure heart are here to teach others, on how to live a purposeful life of love, positivity and peace, and not to process their problems for them.
When you help someone in need and don't maintain healthy boundaries – and on the contrary – when someone helps you and you don't maintain your power – these exchanges can occur.
One way to identify if you have shared perhaps, too many Soul fragments is if the other person starts to copy you. Take for example, if you buy a red jacket, and then they do; if you travel to an exotic place and then they plan to, or do; or if you have a passionate interest in a topic, then they do – chances are – there is an exchange of Soul fragments.
The same can be said if they start to inherit attributes or characteristics of yours. If you are naturally a positive, confident person, interacting with someone that is depressed and insecure and suddenly, they are over-confident and perhaps vain – chances are you exchanged Soul fragments.
Another symptom of Soul fragment exchange is: once you leave the presence of a person and you continue to 'think' about them or the problems they are experiencing, then again, an exchange of Soul fragments is likely to have occurred.
If you have exchanged Soul fragments and the relationship or friendship takes a discordant turn and as a result, you draw healthy boundaries – then prepare for anger or negativity to perhaps be directed at you. Because when you request the retrieval of your Soul fragments – the other person feels it, and they are not particularly in support of you doing so. So be prepared. Simply retrieve your Soul fragments and detach in love and light, and ask Spirit to help them on their own Soul journey. Many of these experiences are karmic relationships or ones that our Soul has simply outgrown.
The positive news is, these fragments can be retrieved back, permanently. But you must strengthen your boundaries, which may be through aura work, learning about how perfectly clear any attachments, and then calibrating all your energetic bodies – spiritual, emotional, mental and physical – to the new strengthened and balanced frequency you are operating on.
It is also important to note that most of the time, it is not consciously done by the other person. But with you being on your spiritual path, you will intuit this and with wisdom, you need to restore and maintain your boundaries, and practice energetic responsibility and spiritual completeness - in love and light. It is for the higher good of all concerned.
How to Retrieve your Soul Fragments.
You can work with God, the Archangels, your Guides and Angels, Saints, Spirit, All that is – whoever you normally work with. (This will only work when we come from a space of Divine Love).
1.Call forth All that is, to you.
2.Consciously and preferably, out loud, call all fragments of your Soul given away or taken by any person, from all time, space and dimensions, and ask for it to be cleansed and purified by Spirit to its original divine state, and returned back into your energy field.
3.See and feel your Soul fragments effortlessly returning back to you, as it re-enters your energy field and nestles back into its soulful place.
4.Then ask for all Soul fragments that do not belong to your Soul to be cleansed and purified, and returned to the rightful Soul owner, in love and light.
5.Seal your auric field, ground yourself to Mother Earth, give thanks and know it has been done.
You can do this any time your intuition guides you to, while you work on restoring healthy and strong boundaries. Your Soul fragments embody your soul frequency and responds immediately to your requests, so you only need to state it, see it, feel it and it is done.
By retrieving your Soul fragments, you bring the pieces of your Soul, just like a puzzle, back together, and this enhances your Soul strength so you can live the life you came here to experience.
Kasi Kaye Iliopoulos
Kasi Kaye Iliopoulos is the author of “Living in Light, Love & Truth”, a Reiki, Flower Essence & Crystal Healing Practitioner. She is also studying towards her Bachelor of Health Science, majoring in Naturopathy, which is driven by her passion to bridge the gap between complementary and western medicine.