As a psychiatrist, I believe that dreams provide extraordinary insights into improving your health, relationships, and career. I consult my dreams for all important decisions using a technique which I describe in “Emotional Freedom” and below. You'd be surprised at the invaluable advice that your dreams give, either spontaneously or on request.
Science magazine reports that sleeping on something or “unconscious thought” can result in smarter decisions than over-thinking--especially with important choices. For instance, if you’re going crazy analyzing the pros and cons of a relationship, the Science study says that won’t get you very far. Rather, it proposes that you think less and sleep on the dilemma, to give your subconscious an opportunity to solve the problem.
I subscribe to the “sleep on it” school of decision-making which involves drawing on the wisdom of dreams. Why do we dream? To find answers, resolve emotional conflicts, and discharge negativity. Also to stabilize our biochemistry and mood. But, to me, another interesting question is, “Why do we wake up? Native American and Aboriginal cultures revere dream-time over waking life--they base tribal law on information obtained there. The Maoris believe that when we die, we return to the dream world. Kalahari Bushmen say, “There is a dream and it is dreaming us.” So, in your own life, your dreams can contain advice that goes beyond the Annals of Internal Medicine.
How to Remember & Interpret Your Dreams from Emotional Freedom
I recommend the following 5 strategies to remember your dreams.
Try this every day for a week. Keep at it. You are programming your subconscious to remember. Soon it will become second nature to you.
How do you interpret dreams? One key is to notice the most highly charged emotion in the dream—for instance, anger, fear, or joy. Next ask yourself, “Where in my life am I feeling these emotions?” Then, consider, how you can heal the situation or else celebrate a success. In addition, here are some common dreams and their interpretations.
A GUIDE TO INTERPRETING COMMON PSYCHOLOGICAL DREAMS
Dreams about your fears, anxieties, and insecurities
Dreams affirming your strengths, emotional achievements, and largeness of spirit
Dreams let you pinpoint an emotional conflict, so you can solve it. For instance, if you’re standing naked before a group of jeering coworkers, ask yourself, “Might I have feelings of being exposed or berated at work?” Then take steps to feel more protected in that environment. Or if, in a dream, you’re wandering aimlessly, consider, “Where am I lost in my life, and how can I find my way?” Also, it’s crucial to honor the messages of encouragement dreams send. Emotional freedom comes from removing blocks as well as acknowledging your own clarity and power.
Judith Orloff MD is the author of the New York Times bestseller Emotional Freedom: Liberate Yourself From Negative Emotions and Transform Your Life (Three Rivers Press, 2011) now available in paperback and upon which this article is based. Her work has been featured on The Today Show, CNN, the Oprah Magazine and USA Today. Dr. Orloff synthesizes the pearls of traditional medicine with cutting edge knowledge of intuition and energy medicine. An Assistant Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at UCLA, she passionately believes that the future of medicine involves integrating all this wisdom to achieve emotional freedom and total wellness. For more inspiration visit www.drjudithorloff.com. Buy Emotional Freedom and receive hundreds of bonus gifts at www.drjudithorloff.com/emotional-freedom-paperback/