There is much information in the Spiritual Community regarding the Twin Flame/Twin Soul phenomena. There are an increasing number of individuals who have awakened to the realization that a person in their life is or has triggered an amazing sequence of feelings and sensations. These are often inexplicable within the confines of a traditional “connection or relationship”, and then the search for answers begins.
What can be said of the Twin Flame connection is the deep feeling inside that just keeps forcing its’ way through to one’s conscious and unconscious mind. For those that have lived very busy and preoccupied lives this feeling is amplified at a point of crisis. The crisis, can trigger a deep realization that the connection is not ordinary. It has in many cases a higher purpose. At this time you begin to seek answers, but where do you begin.
Those who have not lead a very spiritual life will seek answers through counselling and/or therapy. This allows you to look at the life events that have brought us to the crisis in question. Most Twins will have experienced an abusive or traumatic childhood and adopted life templates from family members, which leads to the repetitive patterns forming. When you begin to take a look at the psychology and enter into a deeper awareness of the current life experience, it is quite clear to see the source of the problem.
It is essential you take the brave step of examining the patterns, and your life under a microscope. You will begin to process and unravel these events, that lead to the secrets. The very places your psyche has blocked or denied access to. The confrontation of oneself becomes apparent, you are staring at things that have been hidden, in most cases for most of your life. Your ego will be play havoc; it will do everything in its power to prevent you from unravelling the truth. Your ego has kept you going, living, and surviving to this point. Yet why are you repeating similar events?
The ego is an amazing asset, but one that needs to be tamed by its master. It is the making and breaking of humans, the very root of most of today's’ social problems. Just look at the boom in the counselling, psychology, psychic and meditation businesses. This is a good indicator that there is a real demand from society to understand problems and situations, and, a desire to fix them. This is far more obvious now with the increasing number of people experiencing spiritual awakening all over the world.
When we confront our truth for this life time, we will begin to heal the wounds. We will forgive those we need to, disconnect from those we should, make changes in our psyche, and we will begin to reprogram our thought processes. Effectively healing our inner child, and allowing him or her to grow and become a teenager.
At this point you are in a new phase of evolution as a person. You have to learn really how to communicate or respond to situations in everyday life again. This is a difficult task, but you have new set of tools to rely on. It is very easy for the ego to keep coming back and try to force you to revert to your old ways and methods. You are a graduate of life again, and at whatever age you are, this is all about growing up again, you are beginning a new life.
This psychological work will undoubtedly cleanse the emotional and physical baggage of this life experience. Then, more often than not, comes the spiritual growth and/or awakening. This is a whole new process of evolution – and you ask yourself again, what is happening to me? This is the point you again asks questions about yourself and the person that keeps coming back into your thoughts, your dreams, and your day-to-day activity.
Some twins have powerful telepathic connections, others have the ability to sense and feel, others are connecting through traditional 3D ways. Despite having gone through deep psychological purging, you are not crazy, you have proven that by dealing with the psyche. This is something far bigger than us.
One should be careful not to believe all that is written or said, you will feel something is missing. The search for answers continues in earnest. You should look at the synchronicity’s you shared, what you have in common. How did you meet, what experiences you shared whilst you were physically together. One of the most profound sensations is the sexual connection, when one describes the encounter as “out of body”, “the best experience”, “multi-dimensional” it is a key sign of a Twin connection.
Many twins have met in the strangest of situations, have different cultural backgrounds and religions, big age differences, the feeling of knowing each other. Each journey is unique and can never be compared to another. There are certain common attributes to twin connections, predominantly the validation comes from within.
The spiritual awakening is one of cleansing and purifying the very core of oneself. A purging of all ill feelings, dependencies and habits so you may reach a heightened awareness of the gifts you truly possess. The ability to keep the ego in check, and recognize when it begins to play. Recognizing your desire to drastically change your life, to accept that you do have a mission and purpose. To grow internally with a sense of peace and harmony, refilling your life with self-love.
There comes a time when we are able to be in zero point of consciousness. We become more in-tune of what is going on around us in nature, we are in touch with who we are. As our spirituality grows, our psyche begins to intertwine. In effect they merge and create a whole new template, the template of Oneness. In the end it defines who we are. We are truth, we are love, we are, you are, and I AM.
The Twin Flame journey is not a relationship in the typical definition. It is an amazing adventure that leads us to oneness. Through healing and growth the twin’s blossom, they raise their vibrations, they begin to realise their mission and purpose. It is intended for twins to reunite for a final incarnation. Ultimately this is pre-agreed in the contracts between the Divine and the twins. The label Twin Flames has become somewhat main stream these days, it is important to continue to live life, to grow and mature, remembering the connection is in the higher realms. Shall we stay in the here and now wonders manifest themselves.
Never lose touch of who you are, as you grow you recognize your twin is always with you, they are with you in all dimensions. Should you have experienced a physical encounter with your twin, and have managed to evolve yourself, or are having signs or synchronicities’, it may be an idea to reach out to your beloved. If it is possible to physically meet them, do so – at that time you will know for sure who they are.
Bio - Deane experienced a physical relationship with his twin, spending nearly 4 years together. He has healed and grown spiritually and now dedicates his time to helping, healing and teaching others. He has launched a project to help sufferers of PTSD and transfer of Trauma. www.askdeano.com