As a Tarot & Intuitive Coach who specializes in love and romance I have been asked on more than a thousand occasions about when a relationship should evolve to “the next phase”. Sometimes they have been involved for a long time without seeing things progress and sometimes they are just meeting someone and need to know whether it’s worth their time but in either situation they tend to place emphasis on the pace and direction the relationship will take.
When I was young, around 16 or so, I remember a friend of my mothers who seemed to bounce from one unhealthy relationship to another. She would meet someone and INSTANTLY fall in love…this was it! This was the man she was going to marry; this was the end of the dating road for her!!!!
Within weeks, however she would find that he was withdrawing, treating her unkind, not tending to her needs, the list goes on. Rather than seeing this happen and walking away she would start to try even…Continue
Added by Laura Brown on April 20, 2014 at 9:00am — No Comments
One of the biggest mistakes that we make in relationships is attempting to change the other person. We think that we can shine a turd and turn him into a knight or we mistakenly think that if THEY changed to suit OUR needs we would suddenly have the relationship of our dreams.
It is not our jobs to change those in our lives or mold them into who we want or think they should be. It’s futile and only ends up using up valuable resources that could…Continue
Added by Laura Brown on April 16, 2014 at 10:00am — No Comments
Involved With A Back & Forth Lover? Those lovers who cannot manage to stay in your life consistently but instead float in and out on a schedule which fits them? They want you one moment and the next you cannot get them to return your call?
Sound familiar? I thought so.
It’s massively frustrating to be in a relationship where it’s one emotional roller coaster after another. One moment you are up, the next you are down! One moment all is right as rain and…
Added by Laura Brown on April 15, 2014 at 4:08pm — No Comments