Oh so frequently I hear the cry in girlie gatherings “I feel like I don’t know him, he just won’t talk about his feelings!” Ladies, is this your mantra now or maybe in days gone by? I know I have been there and put myself through painful coercion techniques often born out of desperation because “We need to talk” has been the persistent mind torture.
It’s an interesting path strewn with expectations about how our men “should” be versus our willingness to know what we want and seek it…Continue
Does your relationship slip occasionally or frequently into the tit for tat spat? Don’t you just loathe it!
You say something, which granted may not be languaged that well, and your honey beautifully deflects the perceived criticism that’s about to land like a fly, by pointing out that, in their opinion, you do the same or in fact worse!
That puts our back up (triggers you, in my language), the irritant energy between you raises a few notches, you are compelled to retort and…Continue
Added by Gina Hardy on June 12, 2011 at 5:52pm — No Comments