There is a place found within where there is no ego, no self, just plain harmony. Why do we kill the thing we love? Allow yourself to be free and spread your wings to fly, to soar in the air high above the troubling world which battles us everyday. I have reached a place within my own meditation where all those things in this life that get me down are minuscule in comparison to the oneness found all around us.
This is not as easy as just saying do this or go there. This which i write about requires an ernest abandonment of what it is we think we know and understand about ourselves, the world we live in and all those we share and interact with constantly. To seek for that which is pure and enduring within our individual meditation. Then and only then can we find a true path appear before us and walk in it and notice a change first within ourselves and then also within all those around us.
One thing i find so very interesting and will share here is there is a place where the critical mind within all of us which points at others and also the troublesome character of our own ego is all null and void. When we have come to a place where we do not employ such things we can look at another person and see the are so disgusting people you ever saw your whole life but the real reason is not that they are so ugly but that within yourself you have ugliness and self loathing however if you look at another person and you see how special and beautiful they truly are it is because within your own heart you are so beautiful and special. In essence then those around us become our mirrors reflecting our very core nature back to us.