The more you give of yourself, the more you find of yourself

-- By Darshan Goswami, M.S., P.E., Pittsburgh, PA, USA

  

We all know how great it feels to receive gifts. However, the joy of getting is short-lived. Our lives are richer when we share, and that great inner joy comes from helping others to better their lives.

Giving truly is a joy. Truly giving from the heart fills your life with joy and nourishes your soul. Giving provides an intrinsic reward that’s far more valuable than the gift.

As Mahatma Gandhi said, “To find yourself, lose yourself in the service of others.” Giving takes you out of yourself and allows you to expand beyond earthly limitations. True joy lies in the act of giving without an expectation of receiving something in return.

Academic research and thousands of years of human history confirm that achieving meaning, fulfillment, and happiness in life comes from making others happy, and not from being self-centered.

Mother Teresa is a famous example. She found fulfillment in giving of herself to others. She helped change the expression on dying people’s faces from distress and fear to calmness and serenity. She made their undeniable pain a little easier to bear.

Why Give?

We can take nothing with us when we leave this Earth. We expend so much time, mental energy and physical energy to acquire material possessions. Yet, we come into this world with nothing, and we leave with nothing, but the karma accrued from the lives we lived. Hence, we must re-evaluate the drastic measures we take and the stress we go through to acquire more and more fleeting wealth. [1]

When people are asked why they give, the readiest answers include: God wants me to; I feel better about myself; others need, and I have; I want to share; it’s only right.

The question I would ask is how did you feel? I imagine you felt very pleased with yourself and happy inside. It has been my experience that when you’re focused on giving to others you’re less likely to become consumed by your own concerns and challenges.

Giving provides an opportunity to look beyond our own world and see the bigger picture. A great perspective can be achieved by stepping out of our own world and venturing into the world of other people. Your worries and challenges may not seem as significant when compared to other people’s situations.

The act of giving kindles self-esteem and brings happiness. Scientists have discovered that happiness is related to how much gratitude you show. The giving itself becomes its own reward.

After several years of soul searching, I discovered that my unhappiness was due to my want for things to fill the void of loneliness. My search for inner happiness led me towards gratitude. During this process of self-realization, I also discovered The Purpose of Living. Yes, I believe that giving thanks makes you happier. But don’t take my word for it—try it out for yourself.

The Power of Giving

Giving truly is a joy. We think we will be happy if we get this or get that. But that happiness is transient. The pleasure you get out of a dress you wore once, or some appliance that you just “had to have,” is minimal. Yet, take those clothes or appliances to a homeless shelter; donate them to someone in need – you will then know real joy, the joy of having given to someone else. This is a joy that will last. It will stay with you and never fade. In fact, it will inspire you to give even more. [1]

Giving is one of the best investments you can make towards achieving genuine happiness. True giving comes from the heart, with no expectation of reciprocation. You’ll find that the more you give, the more you’ll receive.

The power of giving is manifested in the kindness and generosity that you bestow on someone else.

When you give to another unselfishly, the vibrational energy emitting from your subconscious is at its strongest. The power of giving, according to neuroscience, is that it feels good. A Chinese proverb says: “If you always give, you will always have.”

A famous American author and management expert, Ken Blanchard, declared “The more I give away, the more comes back.

If you find yourself feeling unhappy, try making someone else happy and see what happens. If you’re feeling empty and unfulfilled, try doing some meaningful and worthwhile work and see how you feel.

The catch is that we must do this work with passion and enthusiasm. There are many organizations, institutions, and people who are engaged in exemplary works of giving.

Narayanan Krishnan is a management graduate from Madurai, India who gave up his career as chef with a five-star hotel when he saw a man so hungry that he was feeding on his own excrement. From there on, Krishnan started his noble initiative to feed thousands of destitute and homeless people in his state—free of cost.

  

Another example of giving is Sanjit “Bunker” Roy, founder of the Barefoot College. Since graduating from college in 1965, Mr. Roy has committed his life to serving the poor and helping rural communities become self-sufficient. The Barefoot College education program encourages learning-by-doing, such as training grandmothers from Africa and the Himalayan region to be solar engineers so they can bring electricity to their remote villages.

It’s the joy and love that we extend to others that brings true happiness or union with God.

When we give, we reap the joy of seeing a bright smile, laughter, tears of joy, and gratitude for life. We know that if people give just a little more—of their time, skills, knowledge, wisdom, compassion, wealth and love—the world would be a more peaceful and healthier place. The rewards of giving are priceless.

If we want to have happiness, we need to give happiness. If we want love, we need to give love. It is only in giving that we receive.

No matter what our circumstances in life, we have the ability to give. I encourage all to look for opportunities where we can give and help others. The gift of joy will come to us when we give of ourselves to others. That’s what life is all about. Let’s practice and commit our lives to giving joy. Try it! It works!

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Comment by Darshan Goswami on September 27, 2022 at 6:17pm

My Bio is already attached:  

About the Author:    

Darshan Goswami has more than 40 years of experience in the energy field.  He worked as a Project Manager for Renewable Energy, Micro-grid, and Smart Grid projects at the United States Department of Energy (DOE) in Pittsburgh.  Earlier, he retired as Chief (Head) of Renewable Energy from the United States Department of Agriculture (USDA) in Washington, DC.  Mr. Goswami is a registered Professional Engineer (PE) with a passion and commitment to promote, develop and deploy Renewable Energy and the Hydrogen Economy.  In dedication to his life serving humanity and poor people, the author supports the India Foundation for Children Education and Care, Inc. (http://www.ifcare.org/).

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